A good support system is the foundation for success
Imagine having every material thing that you ever wished for; money, clothes, cars, house. Imagine never having to work ever again, or to worry about anything, for that matter.
Picture yourself with all of these things, these symbols of wealth in our modern world – then take away family and friends and see where that leaves you. Sad, alone and with only your own thoughts and material goods to keep you company. I doubt that even the most cynical among us would trade their ordinary lives for such a solitary path.
When you take a good look at the major events in your life, I will bet you that the most memorable image contained in those moments is being with those close to you, whether to celebrate, commiserate or comfort. For, what is happiness without someone to share it with; how do we bounce back without a shoulder to lean on, and where will we find our courage and determination again without someone to guide us?
It has struck me over the past year that, without my support system behind me pushing me on to pursue my dreams and goals, rallying me when I despaired and sharing in my joy, there is a possibility that I might not be where I am today.
I have always known that writing is what I wanted to do; being an author is my dream. Making dreams a reality, however, is no easy feat. Of course, the process is not made any easier by nasty editors and rejection letters – yes, I have been there, done that and bought the T-shirt.
I never gave up on that dream, though. As an ambitious young woman I channelled my inner reserves of strength and determination and I kept on going. Naturally, there were days when it all got a bit too much and I felt more than a little disconcerted by the stream of obstacles thrown in my path – but those were the times when others around me rallied and helped me to get back on track.
My family and friends have always been so supportive of me and my dream to become an author, I have always drawn strength from the knowledge that they are here for me through thick and thin.
It doesn’t end there, though. As I have made my way along my journey to become a published author, my support system has grown to include many wonderful and loyal followers, as well as a team who believe in me and will stick by me through thick and thin.
While I may have dreamed up this dream on my own, it has become a journey which many others have experienced with me. It has grown with the belief of others around me and I have no doubt that, with the continued presence of my support system, my journey will have a very happy ending.
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